Are Personal Trainers Cheaters?

00:00:00 catching cheaters and proud of it I’m sorry it’s your home for war the Roses on Mojo in the morning Rael yeah so you think that your boyfriend could be cheating on you you guys been together for a long time yeah how many years uh it’s been six years and what is it that now makes you think that he might be cheating um we’ve been living together you know for a long time um and uh so he’s a he’s a personal trainer and the other day I was like emptying his gym bag and I found these like hair elastics

00:00:42 and lifting gloves um but they were for women like they clearly weren’t his size uh and yeah he’s already very personal with his clients and I don’t know it’s so so so you’re thinking that he’s possibly cheating with one of his clients c yeah and it is only recently that you started having this feeling or have you had this while he’s you know been doing this and been you guys have been in a relationship with each other um it’s it’s been going on for a while where I’m just like he’s very supportive like a little too supportive

00:01:22 of his clients like they’ll send him these pictures of their bodies before and after you know and he’s he’s like really really supportive which I always wonder why do you have to do that to a to a trainer like why especially you’re you see them in person right yeah you know what they look like right um how is he with you is does he give you attention um kind of I don’t know it’s been a little weird lately too um I just found out I’m expecting and uh okay so it’s just been a little and and is this

00:01:56 the first your first yeah this our this is our first first so it leaves you probably a little bit lacking in maybe maybe a little bit of confidence right now or yeah I’m not feeling super great about myself and my my health in general about it and it just really it sucks like he’s he’s not really that excited for it and he’s I feel like he’s gotten more and more into his work okay and just a quick question does he only train women or does he train men also uh he trains men sometimes but mostly women is he usually as attentive to the

00:02:41 male clients as he is to his female clients I haven’t really notice I’ll be honest I’ve only really noticed like the female ones and also I’m not really going through his phone you know yeah so all right we’re going to call him up we’re going to see where he’s going to send a dozen free roses if you can mute your phone phone so that he doesn’t get suspicious do that right now and we’re hoping that the flowers go to Raquel it’s the War of the [Music] Roses hello hi is is Terry yeah hi hi Terry my name is Nicole

00:03:29 and I’m calling you from a brand new online floral company called roses bloom.com with an offer for some free flowers if you have maybe 30 seconds to answer two short survey questions for me we’re going to give you um a beautiful bouquet of flowers a dozen long stemmed red roses that can be shipped out today anywhere in the country to the person of your choice absolutely free of charge not going to ask you for any sort of credit card information or anything like that we’re just trying to get our name

00:03:55 out there as a a new company uh would you be just just totally free totally free yep I won’t ask you for any financial information yeah yeah why not okay Terry have you purchased flowers in the last six months no and do you plan on purchasing flowers in the next six months uh I hav’t really thought about it okay well as a thank you for participating in that roses bloom.com survey I’m now authorized to provide you with that one dozen long stemmed red roses so I’m going to get a bunch of info from you and I’m going to start a

00:04:32 profile just so we have everything it’ll make it a lot quicker the next time you hopefully order flowers from us and we’ll start with a first and a last name of who you want these to go to today uh let send them to let’s send [Music] Laura okay and what is Laura’s relationship to you uh she’s a she a she’s a client of mine I’m I work with her okay and Terry do you have Laura’s uh phone number uh yeah um wait so what do you send to her well we’re going to send her a text message telling her that she’s

00:05:13 getting a flower delivery we just don’t like love the flowers to be sitting outside um and also and we’re going to record this in just a second we do a digital voice card in Li of a paper card so that will also be texted to her so she can listen to that and know who the flowers are from oh okay Terry do you have that number uh I do one second it is two 248 mhm MH okay and then we’re going to go ahead and record that digital voice card just something that would be on a normal card so nothing crazy long okay and I’m going

00:05:52 to count you down okay 3 2 1 hey Laura uh congrats on all the hard work so proud of your progress okay and Terry I that sound nope that was perfect yep okay I also have to let you know that this call is being recorded for quality and training purposes are you okay with that oh yeah sure great Terry I’m just going to get a couple more things from you and then we’re going to get you off the phone and we will send those flowers um before I do that I just need to uh let you know one last thing while yeah while we’ve been

00:06:40 talking to you and you’ve been sending these flowers off your girlfriend Raquel has been listening in and just heard you send flowers to another woman what I don’t I don’t understand I thought those was just free flowers well they are free free flowers but your girlfriend Raquel called us up because she felt uncomfortable with uh you and other women and wanted to know who you would send a dozen free roses to and you just sent them not to her but you sent them to another person I mean well yes obviously it was

00:07:25 another person but like it’s a it’s is somebody I’ve been working with so it’s nothing other than you’re just trying to do good business yeah I mean she the client has been working working real hard she’s she’s she’s uh made great improvements and I mean I just worked with her and so it was fresh in my mind I just thought rewarding that you know I guess my question would be you and roel just got some great news that you guys are expecting she’s your girlfriend of quite some time why was she not the first person you thought

00:08:05 of I mean I don’t I don’t know I’m at work maybe because it’s this is more it’s on my mind it’s what is it doesn’t matter it’s not there nothing going on Rael does it matter yeah it matters wow you’re going to give those to your client um we’re about to have a buy they were free it’s just a it’s just like a freebie thing yeah and maybe I’m deserving of the free or any of your attention at all I think that the big thing that Raquel is feeling is that she’s feeling like you are doing this more so than just these

00:08:56 flowers that you’re showing a lot more attention to other women than you show her I mean I don’t I I’m just just working with them but have you been spending more time at work than you have with your pregnant girlfriend I don’t know didn’t put a clock on it but yeah I work I work a lot it’s you know we’re going to let you guys talk to each other some more by yourselves okay all right probably good don’t miss this morning when we come back here next is it wrong that he’s sending flowers to a client I mean I don’t think

00:09:47 that the card was very incriminating of what he said but are we all just looking into something that maybe there’s not anything really there other than it’s a client um comments on that and and your thoughts I know a lot of people have them cuz I’m looking at these text messages right now call us up we’ll be right back join the discussion now 844 Mojo live 844 665 6548 this is the home of War of the Roses Mojo in the morning this is the home of War of the Roses Mojo Mojo in the morning Mojo in the morning

00:10:31 show just a a few moments ago a girlfriend heard her boyfriend and the father of her baby she just found out that she was pregnant send flowers to another woman but was it really him sending him to her out of love or cheating or was it good business I don’t know I you know I listen I never usually do give benefit of the doubt I’m not a benefit of the doubter type of a person but uh I don’t know uh he’s a personal trainer which a lot of people you know will tell you that there’s a lot of cheating in you know personal

00:11:13 trainers bad rap but I think yeah I think we’re looking for something here I don’t know that he did anything I think he’s just stupid I think very very divided I know by the way everybody’s divided I’m super torned because it feels like even if it wasn’t romantic it’s a weird line to cross with a client I really to send a congratulatory like you’re doing great a dozen roses congratulatory uhhuh see but like the more I think about it he doesn’t seem like the type of guy that’s going to just buy his girl flowers do you know

00:11:47 him no I’m just I’m just saying I just that’s how it feels it feels I mean there are guy I feel like there are guys out there that don’t buy flowers that’s just not their thing but didn’t he answer my questions as yeses oh yeah he send flowers did he I’m going to be quiet now I’m confused no he said he hadn’t bought flowers and then he didn’t know if he was going never that there you go proof that Shannon doesn’t write down his responses she’s not she’s not checking boxes no honestly I get so nervous

00:12:17 sometimes I just want to make sure to write down the name of who they’re going to and the phone number so we have it uh Tom what’s going on it’s Mojo in the morning War of the Roses what are your thoughts hey guys love you um so I used to work at a gym and not as a trainer but um my my co-workers there we never gave out gifts to any of our um clients for um for for their progress goals honestly it just feels like it’s very suspicious I I do I can’t say for certain that he is teaing or not but h i

00:12:54 mean Raquel has every reason in the world to have a radar up and yeah just keep a a close track on him because I don’t don’t trust him yeah it it Tommy you sound very nervous are you nervous no it’s okay poor thing as soon as you started talking I’m like he’s terrified you didn’t get caught cheating you good yeah Terrence what’s up it’s Mojo in the morning hey good morning how y’all doing good what’s happening I was just telling the lady that he’s doing a lot of too much I I I I like he’s trying to find excuses to

00:13:34 say or make up yeah yeah there was there was there wasn’t there wasn’t a smoothness to his voice I don’t I I don’t think that we had uh much going on there you know yeah he’s trying to think of something to say to to excuse yeah some of us just stutter though okay some of us just aren’t smooth he’s he’s probably much better when he’s telling her what to do do you know yeah uh what’s going on Lori hi hi um I just have to say I think it says a lot about how he feels about this pregnancy by not sending them to his

00:14:11 girlfriend yeah that that like that’s the thing this is such a huge it’s a monumentous occasion in their life and relationship and you would think that that would be just top of mind but if that’s not the kind of guy he is he just isn’t going to magically start sending flowers just cuz she’s pregnant but he gave them to somebody else yeah of and of all of the clients that he has why this particular client cuz she’s got the best progress can I tell you what scares me about this you’re a great job it

00:14:37 sounds like what scares me is they’re they have been together as a couple for six years and they just find out that they’re pregnant this isn’t a I dated you for 6 months and oh crap we got pregnant so if you’re not excited about having a baby which she obviously said that he’s not been that excited about this whole thing and you’ve been with somebody for 6 years your feelings towards the person that is now carrying your baby has not been that great cuz I I you’re not thinking your life is now suddenly

00:15:07 changing six years later and you’re going to have a baby you’re thinking holy crap this is unbelievable we’re having a baby or you know I I that’s the part of me that scares me um John what’s happening it’s Mojo in the morning War of the Roses good morning Mojo how you doing good we’re doing pretty good thank you for listening man I appreciate you for doing that what’s going on so basically at our work we have something called the some morals clients and co-workers so what we got to do is we got to put on the bottom our night L on

00:15:36 what did you do for a worker for morale Boo and you gotta do something for like once a month so that’s part of our evaluation really what what do you do for a living I’m an engineer so you guys have to do a morale booster for for the the clients huh right and so if you were offered a dozen free roses we called you up would you send those to a client heck yeah it’s free and it it wasn’t going to cost you anything so you’re seeing that this guy could be very legitimate in his giving this to a client and not not

00:16:13 spending money not spending hard his hard earn and Raquel’s hard earn money on on flowers right okay I mean listen I I’ve sent gifts to clients yeah sure I I I I will tell you this that there are there are very much so times where I would uh I would say that that’s probably a good case for a lot of people where a lot of people would say you know what this an opportunity to give to somebody that I don’t have to actually come out of my own pocket with and if you’re going to do that I’d rather have

00:16:40 that be you doing that to your client not doing that to the woman that’s now carrying your baby don’t you give to clients when you need to give to client when you feel obligated I I don’t know this just seems very rotic let’s talk to Megan’s clients and St are you there it’s also the flower toys and that’s why I usually try to repeat myself of it’s a it’s long stumped red roses yeah but red roses nowadays don’t mean anything I don’t think I if I red roses to me are just the color of roses if you Kev Mike Zach

00:17:15 gave me long stemmed red roses for just spits and Giggles I I think I would feel a little uneasy see it’s interesting that you say that cuz if I gave uh if I gave white roses or pink roses to you I think Chelsea would be more easy because that is something that means something to her so I think that roses to me it’s generic e you know what I mean no I don’t that’s why we do War of the Roses and not war the daisies I understand that war of the sunflowers the ponus but but I go for tulips um they’re romantic

00:17:49 Leo what did you want to say so I agree first of all that he may just be a little stupid my question would be extremely large and she or was extremely large and she lost an extreme amount of weight did she have some type of um something going on with her that prevented her from being able to do the workouts initially and she she made some awesome progress physically you know maybe she had a health condition or something like if that was a reason then yeah that’s a reason to reward her however roses are I don’t like flowers

00:18:26 myself personally however roses are very intimate so that’s something that you usually give to someone that’s extremely special is this bad to say this but seeing the client and knowing what the progress was would that change our opinion like you brought up a really interesting point if the client was somebody that was overweight really overweight and maybe this guy you know uh was so happy for the fact that she’s made some amazing progress would we say okay well all right we see this or is that bad to say that saying okay he

00:18:59 wouldn’t be attracted to her you know oh no I think context in any situation matters and the caller brings up a great Point she could have hit a major Milestone it could have who knows what it could have been but I think he’s just dumb man like I don’t I don’t I wouldn’t just jump out the line and say he’s a cheater what’s up Jill good morning um his excuse was that they were free but like again why didn’t you send them to your girlfriend that you just found out is going to have your baby and he

00:19:26 said I just worked with her so she was like fresh on my mind yeah but your girlfriend’s not like that’s not your priority yeah but I also see Moo’s point of like roses aren’t like that like if I was going to get my wife something it’d be lies it wouldn’t be ever be roses I would never even think to give her roses but the cont TST of roses is romantic right so so M I just want to I want to flip this for just so your brain can examine this another way okay let’s say that Ally worked with a a dentist in the

00:19:59 office she works at and she got him and and he’s the funniest guy she’s ever known uh and and she gets him cologne just because he he got a promotion I feel like that’s like a very intimate gift right she got him cologne just because so it do How You Gonna feele right I would feel well she given the cologne and is it his favorite kind of cologne just answer the damn question well why does he know don’t lie he know what his favorite cologne is it would bug me yes it I would definitely set up red flags yes yes yes um what what about

00:20:38 this though Jill uh Crystal what was your comment good morning um my comment was if you listen you know to his text his voice text it’s clearly professional that’s what I I think too yeah it’s nothing romantic roses are intimate absolutely but he’s thinking freebie and you know like maybe he’s thinking you know Rael like you know they’re confident in their relationship so he wasn’t even thinking you know that’s why he was stupid thinking about just giving her the flowers you know the client the flowers

00:21:10 instead yeah his his confident in his relation his voice memo note that he sent was not a voice memo note of a guy that’s lusting after this person I have a question is shannan’s voice disguised ever no and we get busted a lot very distinct voice so yes but yeah I was going to you we get busted a lot we get busted a lot and I got to be honest with you the ones that we get busted a lot with don’t ever make it to the air because they’re busted in about five seconds it’s usually hi I’m B hi Shannon

00:21:41 you know I mean so that happens click yeah okay well you guys have a great day you too take care of yourself all right War of the Roses if you think you’re uh getting cheated on text cheater to 95500 this is the home of a second date update War the Roses

 

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